
Genesis 2 speaks to the creation, with the sixth day as the crowning glory. The sixth day all the animals were presented to Adam for naming, whereupon finalizing the task and resulting in a declaration from God that it is not good for Adam to be alone – the first marriage.
My pastor said today that Adam saw the pairs and the fact that he didn’t have a pair opened his eyes to this missing component. Thereby priming Adam for a place in his heart for someone else, which God then creates from Adam’s side. The act of naming the animals and being a part of Eve’s personhood was necessary for Adam to see himself as leader of the animals and a partner to this woman.
He further showed how Adam, upon waking up, said “Wow” when he first saw Eve, and they were the first case of “love at first sight.” I like this visual a lot, and although the pastor’s notions are of the romantic ilk, I believe that Adam was pleased with Eve.
The anecdote (paraphrased) that follows isn’t original to my pastor (he noted), but I thought it was an interesting way to think of God’s plan of marriage:
God created Eve not from Adam’s head, so he could not lord over her; not from his feet, so he would not trample over her, but from his side, denoting their equality, and under his arm to protect her and near his heart.
I’m absolutely certain I butchered that, but I hope you get the idea. Anyway, I like it.
The final takeaway for today’s lesson simply has to do with the strength in having God in a marriage. The triangle below represents man, woman, God, and God is at the peak. If the man and woman go up toward God, the man and woman will naturally get closer to each other as they get closer to God.
Just a little something to think about if you are married or plan to be. Love is the start of everything – but not usually without some complications on this side of heaven – and it is still very good.








