
It’s December and a beautiful sunny day, but cold. It’s the kinda day where you bask in the warmth of the sun through the windshield of your car because if you are outside, the warmth is snatched away by the bitter cold, instantly reddening your cheeks. No sunburn, frostbite.
Such a day as this is to be celebrated as the exception to the typical gray days of winter in Chicago. So, to celebrate, a road trip is order – Lake Geneva, here we come.
Lake Geneva is one of my favorite places on the planet, and we is me and my old friend Jock. Although I love Lake Geneva, I have never once considered going to the frozen tundra that is Wisconsin in the winter. It’s a summer place, for boat rides and ice cream following an outdoor lunch overlooking the mansion-lined lakefront.
I drive the rental car to pick up my friend and traveling companion who proffers a slim, hand-rolled marijuana stick. My, my, it’s something I haven’t done in years, so I’m not sure whether I should partake or not.
One thing about me is that when presented with a temptation, I very rarely decline. Here we go.
We drive north, the wind gets stronger, the thermometer drops lower, and we are high. We pull off to the side of the road periodically to take a hit or two of the skunky weed, it is after all a road trip, no rush. We freeze our butts off, but don’t feel it. Giggly.
Lake Geneva is beautiful, but it has lost some allure in its frozen state as the boats are gone, restaurant patios are shuttered, and no one is eating ice cream in 10 degree weather. We cut the trip short and head back to my hotel. Jock is looking to spend more of my final two days in town, but I have plans and have to beg off. Persisting, he asks “What could be more interesting than spending time with me?” Reluctantly, I tell my pagan friend, “I’m going to visit my old church.” He pulls a face and says, “I didn’t know your were a Christian.”
I brushed it off at the time, but recently I have been thinking about how loud that one little statement speaks to who I am, and who I am not.








